Navigating New Spaces: a Call to Action

Adjust Your Sails
4 min readJan 31, 2024

I would love to spill all the beans right now, but I simply cannot. I am famous for my over-sharing, but I am learning there is a time to share, and time to work behind the scenes. I’m so easily inspired and full of passion, which prompts me to want others to make space for the same energy.

However, learning to navigate my own energy has been crucial to that. It’s not always the time, and certainly not always the place. That being said, learning how to navigate new spaces and convince yourself you deserve to be in them is a necessary part of advancement and evolution.

Believe your name is being spoken about fondly in rooms you’ve never even entered. Spend your energy on personal development and the right people, places, things, and timing will suddenly show up, and you’ll realize the answers are often right in front of your face.

It’s just hard to defeat imposter syndrome. But everyone starts off as an imposter. The way you get really good at something is to begin. And no one is truly an expert in the beginning. You deserve to live this life, to be happy, to embrace duality and connection. We all do.

The universe is impartial and I think that’s the hardest lesson in all of this. It just responds to what you put out. And that doesn’t mean you have to be high vibe. It means you have to be authentic. You have to navigate spaces you find yourself in with some intention and care.

For years I’ve written about how you have to change the inside first, and then your external world will change. This message has never been more prominent for me. We entered a collective 8 year, and I entered a personal month 8. Powerplays and leadership were definitely a theme.

Liz and I talked about this in our January Overview episode. I’m so excited about the direction we’ve been taking the podcast. I can’t wait for the 2nd episode in March. We’re diving deep into attachment styles. I may even throw in the attachment style of the signs.

Today I am calling you to action. Stop seeking perfection. Stop waiting for the perfect time. Stop expecting perfection in every area of life. I call you to acknowledge that sometimes life is just hard, but not from a place of victimhood. From a space where you cry, feel, and cleanse, so that you make space for the duality of life in joy, love, and belonging.

Last night I sat here and cried. My daughter messaged me telling me that she is so grateful I’m her mother. How I’ve always been the same good and genuine person inside her whole life, and how glad she is I healed and became who I am today. She said I inspire her.

You all know that my kids are my reason. And that even if they were to choose to never speak to me again I would still feel the pressure to never give up, to conquer every fear, because they are always watching. Our attachment styles start in childhood. I know that my own did.

We are moving for the March recordings into a less scripted version, too. We do not want it to sound like we are reading, and prefer to just have conversations. So Liz has created some amazing outlines that will keep us on topic, while allowing space for in the moment response and interaction.

There are not many coaches out there, who share their struggles and behind the scenes experience with the energy they speak on. Liz and I do that for you. We are honest about where we struggle, how we navigate that struggle, and end up back at trust and peace every time.

I hope you’ll subscribe. We are looking to get feedback on what types of topics you want to hear more about regarding our divine feminine evolution, astrology, human design, emotional intelligence, or even just our lives in general. We’re quite open books.

We also have a contest going on right now. We are giving away two FREE readings, that include both astrology AND human design! All you have to do is subscribe and comment your interest on any episode of the podcast to have your name entered into the drawing.

We will be recording the readings we do for the podcast, and you can request to remain anonymous if you choose. We feel the information we are providing is priceless. Let us know what we’re doing right, and where you think we could do better. Open to constructive criticism.

We’re hoping to be on video with our YouTube come March! ❤ That means the April episodes will be uploaded with video onto the platform! We will keep you updated on the progress of the studio.

There is zero certainty in life, and that makes us uncomfortable. So you have to become certain that you’re going to be okay no matter what.

February is a month to cleanse and purify. Check out the episode we did on stoicism and the truth about the calendar, the New Year, and time…

John and I are amazed at the love and support in our lives. He is doing much better, but we are still asking for donations to help while he is off from work. We have the Go Fund Me, as well as the following:

Cashapp: $Kdoxsie

Chime: $Katrina-Doxsie

Venmo: @Katrina213

Namaste! ❤

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Adjust Your Sails

You must grow strong enough to love the world, yet empty enough to sit down at the same table with its worst horrors. ― Andrew Boyd