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Mars in Libra
Since Mars is entering Libra today, and I just had an amazing conversation about relationships, I decided a blog was necessary. It is my ultimate goal to teach as many people as possible that the only way to develop truly healthy relationships with others, is by first developing the relationship to self.
For a relationship to be healthy it requires authenticity. If you’re wearing a mask trying to appease a partner that will never feel good. You will never feel as if you are accepted because it’s not the real you involved in the relationship. It’s a character you created because you felt the real you wasn’t good enough.
Healthy relationships require intimacy. This goes way beyond the physical act of sex. Unless you grow comfortable being intimate with yourself you’ll likely never be comfortable truly being intimate with others. It’s a paradox, but in order to truly feel accepted by others you have to accept yourself. It’s the only real way to believe you’re acceptable at all.
It is the ability to be authentic and vulnerable with another human being. It’s when you become so intimately comfortable with who you are that you can be intimately comfortable with others with a sense of ease. It’s when you get honest with yourself about your needs and desires.
True intimacy cannot be obtained between two people if one or both have refused to know…
