Adjust Your Sails
11 min readDec 6, 2021

Why is it that we fear the things we want the most? Connection, belonging, love, joy, pleasure. These are things we all want, but when we get them we often sabotage it. We are all dealing with different attachment styles, but we are all attached to certain outcomes.

I think the first thing we need to remember is that nothing lasts forever. While your connections, belonging, love, joy, and pleasure don’t last forever, neither do your break…

Adjust Your Sails

You must grow strong enough to love the world, yet empty enough to sit down at the same table with its worst horrors. ― Andrew Boyd